A Ruth Calder guide
You may be facing a request that feels urgent, personal, or hard to question. This book gives you clear checks and calm replies to use before money, gifts, travel funds, or personal information move.
Plus 2 separate bonus books.Including Before-Sending-Money Checklist.
One digital bundle. PDF to read or print, plus EPUB for e-readers.
01 · How it helps
Use these checks when someone wants you to act quickly. Each one helps you slow down and verify the story without relying on the caller, message, or online contact.
1Before you reply
What should I write down before I answer this request?
✓How to record the person, story, amount, deadline, and payment method. Chapter 01
How do I check without using the contact details they gave me?
✓How to find your own number, site, or app before you verify a claim. Chapter 01
2An online partner asks
How can I tell whether this online partner is really who they say they are?
✓How to compare photos, messages, names, and profiles for conflicting identities. Chapter 02
What do I do when the camera never works and money is requested?
✓How to set a no-money rule when an online partner repeatedly avoids a working camera. Chapter 06
3An emergency arrives
My grandchild or relative is said to be in trouble. Who should I call?
✓How to end the call and reach your relative through a saved number. Chapter 03
The caller says they are from my bank. Can I trust the number in the alert?
✓How to end the call and redial the number printed on your card. Chapter 04
4Money has moved
What should I do if I already sent money or shared information?
✓How to contact the payment provider and gather the details you may need. Chapter 09
How can my family make a plan before another request comes?
✓How to choose a pause partner and keep trusted contacts and reporting details together. Chapter 10
02 · What’s inside
Each chapter focuses on a different kind of money request or pressure story. You get six stand-alone methods in each chapter, along with a simple step you can take tomorrow.
03 · Your 2 bonus books
The book includes a printable checklist for unexpected requests. It also includes a fillable sheet for trusted contacts, fraud lines, and reporting details.
$21 estimated bonus valueAll 2 included with your $37 book
Pause before you pay.
A printable pause-and-check sheet for any unexpected money request, with the independent checks to make before you answer. 30 pages.
Keep contacts together.
A fillable record of trusted contacts, your bank's fraud line and where to report a scam, kept where the family can find it. 25 pages.
Plus, at no extra charge: lifetime updates to the main book.
Individual values are estimates set by Ruth Calder, not previous selling prices. No physical books are shipped.
04 · The honest part
Not in this book: A way to prove someone is trustworthy from one message or profile.
I show you how to look for independent matches and conflicts before money moves.
Not in this book: A promise that every scam can be spotted in time.
I give you pause steps and checks you can use when a request is unexpected.
Not in this book: Advice to confront, accuse, or out-argue the person asking.
I give you short replies that let you end the conversation and verify the claim yourself.
Not in this book: A replacement for your bank, payment provider, or official report process.
I show you how to reach those places through contact details you find independently.
Ruth
05 · Who wrote it
Ruth Calder helps adults over 45, and the families who worry about them, check an online partner before any money, gift card or plane ticket changes hands.
Each video takes one request or story romance scammers use - the emergency abroad, the fee to come home, the investment tip, the camera that never works - and shows what gives it away and the free checks anyone can run. Warning signs and steps are credited to the FTC, the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center and AARP's Fraud Watch Network, and real cases are told only from published reports.
06 · The offer
Plus all 2 bonus books included
PDF and EPUB editions to download, read or print.
No subscription. No shipping.
You receive the main book as a digital PDF and an EPUB for e-readers, plus the printable checklist and fillable family sheet. Your purchase is $37, with an instant download after payment and no subscription or shipping.
It gives you a single place to keep practical checks and replies for unexpected money requests.
What you get for $37:
Individual values below are publisher estimates. Everything is included in your $37 purchase.
60 Checks and Replies for Unexpected Money Requests
A printable pause-and-check sheet for any unexpected money request, with the independent checks to make before you answer. 30 pages.
A fillable record of trusted contacts, your bank's fraud line and where to report a scam, kept where the family can find it. 25 pages.
27 printable pages: the worksheets and cards to use beside the book.
Future revisions of this book at no extra charge.
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Published by Ruth Calder
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07 · Questions
You receive the main book as a digital PDF and an EPUB for e-readers. You also receive the Before-Sending-Money Checklist and the Family Scam Contact and Report Sheet.
Yes. The main book and the included sheets are provided as digital PDF files. The checklist is designed to be printable.
It is for adults who want to check an unexpected request before sending money, gifts, travel funds, or information. It is also for grown children who want a calmer plan with a parent or family member.
Start with the chapter that fits the request in front of you. If there is no current request, begin with the pause checklist and the family contact sheet.
Ask for your money back through Whop within 30 days and every dollar comes back, no questions asked. That is the Read-It-First Guarantee: read the book first, then decide.
No. It includes checks for online partners, family emergencies, bank and business impersonators, gift cards, wires, crypto, investment tips, and fake platforms.
There is a chapter for the steps after money or information has moved. It covers contacting the payment provider, preserving records, changing reused passwords, and building an evidence packet.
Yes. The main book also comes as an EPUB file, which opens in Kindle (through Send to Kindle), Apple Books, Kobo and Google Play Books. The workbook and bonus books are PDFs, made to read on screen or print.
You do not have to settle a request while someone is waiting on the phone or in a chat. Write it down, end the pressure, and check the story through information you found yourself.
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